I found it!! In the app site it mentions a Parent Portal and I got to it finally, not by searching help, or by checking settings, or clicking on a link on that page i mentioned, but when I asked my daughter to ask me to add a friend via the app. THEN when I clicked on it, I got all the access to the accounts…prior to that I was going to send a support message to FB but I didn’t once I actually found this…so far it is nice to be able to ‘text’ my 9yo when she’s on her kindle and I need to reach her.
**Next day** Now I see that I also have some of the same access when she messages me just under her name on my phone…
Til next time!! XO – SBTechMa